QUESTION :
How can I connect my iPhone to my PC so I can download mp3’s to it? I also want to update the OS on the phone.
I have an iPod, but the connector doesn’t seem to fit.
ANSWER :
The best and easiest way is using the USB connector and iTunes. You can easily pick up a new cable at amazon.
http://www.amazon.com/Apple-iPhone-Transfer-Cable-Charger/dp/B000SSWFW0
Step 0) Buy a compatible cable, Deal-Extreme is a great option. Make sure your iPhone model is listed. Note the cheap shipping takes approx. 5 weeks.
Step 1) Download & Install iTunes. Use it update your iOS on your phone. (iTunes will be like “Yo, dis ‘ere eye-fone iz outta dayte dawg” – then your phone will be ruined updated upon your approval).
Step 2) Import your MP3s in to iTunes and load them on your iPhone
Step 3 [optional]) Jailbreak your iPhone and install iDroid, then figure that out too.
Alternatively
Perhaps you loathe iTunes, inspite of owning the iTunes-pusher an iPhone.
Here’s a funky guide to iTunes-less music goodness on iPhone. (Spoiler: MediaMonkey, WinAmp+mlipod, SharePod, CopyTransManager, etc)